Ganapathy Blessings for peaceful married life
Lord Ganesha - Devotion to Lord Ganesha will break all obstacles
in getting Married and Family life. I wish there really is a statue
and temple for "Kalyaana Ganapathy " because when i
wanted to create a divine temple which will be a blessing for all
who wish to get Married, this name came in me by grace of Lord Ganapathy
and Guru Shirdi Saibaba. Kalyaanam in my mother toungue tamil means
"Marriage" and lets bow to this "Kalyaana Ganapathy"
to bless everyone with peaceful married life.
I request everyone who comes to this Divine "Marriage pooja
temple" to chant
"Shree Ganeshaaya Namaha"
for 3 times and say a universal , selfless prayer so that the almightly
God and Guru will feel happy that we ask for Rain of blessings for
familes in whole world.
Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvathi mantra for blessings
to get good husband
Om He Gouri Shankarardhaangi Yatha Twam Shankar
Tatha Mam Kuru Kalyani Kantam Kantaam Sudurlabham
Meaning in hindi : -
He gauri (parvathi) je jaise aap shankar ji ke aradhaangi ( wife
u say) ho aur jaise aap shankar ke priye ho meri aapse parthana
hai ke muhje aisa vardan do aur mera kalyaan karo ke muhje bhi shankar
ji jaisa var mile.
Reciting this mantra 16 times every day will gain Parvathis blessings
Birth of Marriage Pooja Temple :
Blessings of Shri Guru Narasimha
Saraswati and Shirdi Saibaba :
Its Ekadesi day auspicious for Lord Vishnu ( 20:05:2009 ). The
past few weeks a desire emerged in me to create a Indian Matrimony
website.I could not afford to make matrimonial site.( he ..he...)
Being someone who has suffered a lot unnecessarily falling in love
and getting hurted , my desire took a better stage. Many Indian
familes are facing problems , obstacles and pains in love and relationship.
So it will be a blessing if i divert their mind from constant worries
and expectations towards devotion on God and Guru.
My mother used to read "Guru Charitra"
which is about saint Narasimha Saraswati who lived in 13th century
. Its a beautiful Holy book which i opened to ask for permission
to Guru if this "Marriage Pooja Temple" created ? . It
came to the page where Shri Guru tells a man in chapter 32 that
"Fate Cannot be changed but
devotion on Guru has powers to bless you with peaceful life".
People suffering in relationship, problems in getting married
or after getting married due to some domestic, financial issues,
emotional problems praying for gift of a child , Problems due to
fear of health of husband or wife . In the past few years so many
have mailed me through www.starsai.com .
I have asked a few to light 27 lamps in house or temple, have requested
them to give sarees to poor women or if they live abroad, asked
them to give sarees or any dress as gift to their welwishers as
i believed the blessings you get from ashirwad of others will surely
bless you with good life.
Many have been benefitted through my innocent request and guidance
but few of them are still in pain due to relationship problems or
marriage issues. The word Shri Guru gave me
" Fate cannot be changed "
is a striking message to me. That no matter how much we are involved
in marriage rituals, pooja to get married, pooja for peaceful life,
pooja for child birth and rituals or mantra for harmony in family
, One has to go through their sufferings .
I then opened the book Shri Sai Satcharitra about life of my Guru
Shirdi Saibaba who lived in 18th century. I got the page where Saibaba
says " you must always remember the guru and serve guru alone
I realized the saints are making me clear that this divine "marriage
pooja temple" can do and cant do ...
1. Devotion on Guru - A pure Saint
like shirdi saibaba helps you :
Yes , it can't be. Lets say you do a pooja for Lord Shiva or any
Goddess you love. If you get married ,and feel happy then the credit
goes to your good deeds in previous and this birth and also good
deeds of your ancestors . More importantly
your devotion to Guru ( any Good pure
saint like shirdi saibaba ).
Incase if someone faces pains after getting married , again its
your own past karma, desire and impatience .This sacred place ,
my guidance when i have time to children of God is man made. Millions
of dollars is spent for "Marriage counseling" in western
Family Marriage Counseling or Pure
path shown by Shirdi Saibaba :
When i saw websites which will pay for every minute of Family Marriage
counseling ,i wondered if one can earn this way. Having guided hundreds
of indian women and men in the past 5 years through starsai.com
, i would have earned well. Again i asked for saibabas guidance
and i realized Saibaba wants me to remain detached from profits.
My language is not perfect and am not a phychic reader or astrologer.
Iam a ordinary indian and try to collect spiritual ways, rituals
and pooja, what ever means you can follow to
The words i write , let it be for
welfare of millions of men and women who wish to lead a peaceful
Even if what i wrote is wrote, its ok, I only request everyone
to show devotion on God and their Choosen Guru and involve in good
The real profit i get is when you bless me and StarSai family and
keep me in your prayers. Let me replay to mails i get if i have
time or let the contents of this website help men and women in the
path of Light.
"The light of Guru Bhakti - devotion on Guru "
What is the goal of this temple ?
To help you divert your mind towards
Spirituality - Serving God and Guru with Pure Devotion by
dong the following
1. Light lamps regularly in house and temples
2. Do simple Rituals , Pooja to get married
and be blessed with good life partner
3. Involve in Good deeds. I usually request
men and women willing to get married or people who face problems
in marriage to
a. Give Saree ,any dress as Gift
to women , children :
Give sarees or any dress to poor maid servant
or lets say women cleaning temples or any poor women who deserves
it. Get affordable sarees , keep in a pack along with some flowers
, if possible kumkum packet etc . My mother says it will be a great
ashirwad if you give to "sumangali" , A women wos happily
married but otherwise also its fine. Do not do such charity when
many poor people are around as everyone will expect it.
( First decently ask the person if they like to accept your gift
, if they ask reason, say that you wish to give as you have vowed
to god )
b. Its not necessary that you give the sarees
or dress only to poor women. You can give to any welwisher , any
family friend or relative or close friends.The point is, you are
making a women happy. God alone knows what sins one did for their
suffering at present. So by making a women happy with a gift , we
are blessed for a better life.
c. Gifts to children is also a blessing
For those who are not able to find a poor
women and those living abroad , you can give sarees or any dress
to welwishers after clearly asking if they will accept it . Further
if you live abroa and really in a situation that you can give such
gifts to women, then give some gifts to children.
When you get blessings from a women,
it washes away the sins done to a women in previoud biths and by
I am not writing this mechanically friend.
The reason i want you to make women and children happy is that one
of he main reason why many suffer is beacuse of cursing of a women
or sin done to women and children in previous births or ancestors.
we can't blame anyone. All we can do is to pray God and Guru to
bless us by constantly involving ourselves in good deeds. Sometimes
onkly when we try to do good deeds we get in to problems. So be
careful friends. These days we have to indentify whos really good
and whos greedy and then proceed any relationship.
To how many women should i give
It depends on your wish and ability. Its auspicious to give atleast
5 to 11 women and get their blessings. This doesn't mean they have
to say good words . We are trying to follow dharma in the name of
God. So let God keep account of your good deeds. You be free.
Divert yourself , leave your worries and
show Love on God and Guru :
The power of Devotion :
When you come to this temple, remember its in your own devotion
on God and Guru like Shirdi Sainath is going to help you . Ability
to control your emotions is not easy. There are men and women who
write to me tha they cant even tell their problems to others and
they cry internally . So instead of focusing on needs and desires,
try to focus on "Guru Bhakti" - Devotion on a pure Saint
like Shirdi Saibaba.
If you are not a Sai devotee, fine...You can worship Lord Shiva,Parvathi,
Durga, Mahalakshmi, Saraswathi or any God or Guru from any religion.
What bothers me is the worries many parents ,men and women have
, their emotional needs, desires and frustration.
Is Devotion without expectation
possible for us :
Being a little servant of Shirdi saibaba , having learnt about
life of several sai children and guiding them, I am still praying
saibaba and Gods i love with expectations , I mean prayers which
needs to be answered. There are good sai devotees who asked me why
still i am attached to saibaba even when nothing seems to happen.
I say them " A saints heart is like that of a mother. Sai
wil only do good to us . May be this bad phase will go in a few
days and sai will bless me with a better life".
Though i say this i do have pains when my expectations are not
fulfilled. Similarly i request everyone to be normal. Its ok to
expect but dont always relate the benefits in your life and devotion.
Devotion is pure love on God and Guru . Let us cultivate this habit
of showing love on Guru irrespective of what happens in life.
Our goal is to help you use your
time in Devotion on Guru.
Its my belief that if you have simple
expectations , good nature, helping tendency and pure devotion on
Guru, Sai will bless you with a good life.
Prayers to Shirdi Saibaba , Lord
Shiva and Goddess Mahalakshmi :
All i have is prayers to God and my Guru . Each one who visit this
site will have different needs, desires, expectations or problems
in life. Some may be looking for a beautiful married life , some
may be in pain due to relationship issues and some may be having
health and financial problems.
Let this "Marriage Pooja temple" help you in giving a
small diversion . Leave all your worries in the holy feets of Saint
Shirdi Sai baba or any God you believe in. Again be clear about
"You can't change your fate, your Guru
can , through your pure devotion, a Guru will certainly bless you
with peaceful marriage and family life. At times when it doesn't
happen , gradually learn to accept the situation and make your love
on God and Guru alone as your goal in life. This doesn't mean ,
you write me that " from now onwards , i wont have desires,
let me serve saibaba. No . This is not the change i expect.
I want you to be normal. Be open to the
changes externally but internally build a temple for your guru and
live in peace. A person with unfulfilled desires goes through pains
which kills him/her every minute. So i ask you to come out of your
state and grow towards path of light. A divertion
in life with pure love on Guru.Let the Guru decide whats
best for you in days, months and years to come...".
Write to me if you need guidance
in doing Marriage pooja :
If you have any problems in marriage or any pooja methods or temple
, god or goddess to pray for Marriage blessings , feel free to write
to me from email id at www.starsai.com .